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The Porn Drug: Effects of Porn on Teens, Part 2

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2.  Harmful Sexual Behavior

The second effect of porn on teens in our series is harmful sexual behavior.  Our last post described The Escalation Effect.

Studies show that those who view porn often are more likely to act out these sexual behaviors onto others, as viewing porn online or watching explicit videos is not enough to satisfy their sexual desire.  Such harmful sexual behavior includes, rape, pedophilia, voyeurism, group sex, and inflicting pain on oneself or others.

Pornography is what led Ted Bundy, an infamous serial killer, and many other criminals to develop harmful behavior that fueled their horrific crimes.  Here are some experts taken from Bundy’s last interview with James Dobson before his execution on January 24, 1989 (experts taken from “Life on the Edge” by Dr. James Dobson, see complete article at Pure Intimacy’s website here):

Bundy explains how he developed such harmful sexual behavior,

As a young boy of 12 or 13, I encountered, outside the home, in the local grocery and drug stores, softcore pornography. Young boys explore the sideways and byways of their neighborhoods, and in our neighborhood, people would dump the garbage. From time to time, we would come across books of a harder nature – more graphic. This also included detective magazines, etc., and I want to emphasize this. The most damaging kind of pornography – and I’m talking from hard, real, personal experience – is that that involves violence and sexual violence. The wedding of those two forces – as I know only too well – brings about behavior that is too terrible to describe.

… this kind of literature contributed and helped mold and shape the kinds of violent behavior.

Bundy continued to explain that he was a normal guy and even had a healthy upbringing, however, pornography and its ease of access quickly snuck into his life.

I was a normal person. I had good friends. I led a normal life, except for this one, small but very potent and destructive segment that I kept very secret and close to myself.

Once you become addicted to it, and I look at this as a kind of addiction, you look for more potent, more explicit, more graphic kinds of material. Like an addiction, you keep craving something which is harder and gives you a greater sense of excitement, until you reach the point where the pornography only goes so far – that jumping off point where you begin to think maybe actually doing it will give you that which is just beyond reading about it and looking at it.

(See our post on The Escalation Effect)

 I wasn’t some guy hanging out in bars, or a bum. I wasn’t a pervert in the sense that people look at somebody and say, “I know there’s something wrong with him.” I was a normal person. I had good friends. I led a normal life, except for this one, small but very potent and destructive segment that I kept very secret and close to myself. Those of us who have been so influenced by violence in the media, particularly pornographic violence, are not some kind of inherent monsters. We are your sons and husbands. We grew up in regular families. Pornography can reach in and snatch a kid out of any house today. It snatched me out of my home 20 or 30 years ago. As diligent as my parents were, and they were diligent in protecting their children, and as good a Christian home as we had, there is no protection against the kinds of influences that are loose in a society that tolerates….

I’m no social scientist, and I don’t pretend to believe what John Q. Citizen thinks about this, but I’ve lived in prison for a long time now, and I’ve met a lot of men who were motivated to commit violence. Without exception, every one of them was deeply involved in pornography – deeply consumed by the addiction. The F.B.I.’s own study on serial homicide shows that the most common interest among serial killers is pornographers. It’s true.

For more on this interview click here

As always, let Professor George know if you have any questions or comments on this post.  In the meantime, check back because we will continue this series on The Porn Drug and Professor George will be adding his research on the topics.

Mark

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The Porn Drug: Effects of Porn on Teens, Part 1

The Porn Drug Series

THE PORN DRUG SERIES:

This series was the idea of my young webmaster Mark, because he knows how easy it is for teens to find pornography on the Internet, and how it has a lure that has some unexpected dangers to it.  As a very young person, Mark asks a thought-provoking question and comment:  “Do you think porn is just an innocent pleasure?  Think again as we describe some of the many harmful effects porn has on teens.”

This series of blogs will comment on some unexpected and unwanted effects of porn on teens.  Let’s start with the first one:

1.    The Escalation Effect
It all starts off with a quick glimpse of someone in a skimpy outfit, then leads to a night of online swimsuit photo viewing.  However, this doesn’t satisfy your sexual urge, so you venture on to soft-core porn images (and maybe a quick mpeg here and there).  But yet you still crave more intense and explicit porn, which leads you to “stumble” upon hard-core porn sites.  Eventually, the most explicit images do not satisfy you.  You long for more and more extreme, however, it is never enough.  You are hooked and keep coming back for more, whatever the cost.

Some psychologists have pointed out that when you separate sexual pleasure from a loving relationship with a real person, you are easily “satiated” with pictures you have seen, and because porn is sexual arousal without a human person to relate to, it does not ultimately satisfy.  For that reason, over a period of time, one set of pictures or a video is no longer as exciting as it was at first, so you go looking for more visual images.  But then you quickly become satiated on those, so you go look for some new ones, and so on, and so on. It is an endless search for satisfaction that is never completely satisfied.

Clinical psychologists and psychiatrists provide psychotherapy for people with problems, including sexual problems.  And they have found that over a period of years and months, teens and young adults who become repeat users of pornography often progress from normal images to a little bit wierd sexual images and finally to really strange sexual fixations.  It goes like this.  First, just seeing a picture of a topless young woman is exciting.  Then those kinds of pictures get boring, so the young person looks for video images of intercourse.  But over enough time, those get boring, so the young person starts getting interested in porn with “kinky” or wierd sexual deviations.

As you may know, I am a clinical psychologist myself. I have had psychotherapy patients who described this progression that happened over months and sometimes years of involvement with porn, to the point that the patient develops a strange sexual deviation and cannot have normal sexual relations with his wife without bringing wierd porn into the bedroom with her.  Needless to say, many wives find this repulsive and refuse to go along with it.  Then it becomes a serious marital problem, and sometimes the couple comes with this problem to a mental health professional for marriage counseling.

No teen that I have talked to (and I have talked with hundreds of them over my career) ever expects “The Escalation Effect.”  But it is a common problem for those who stick with viewing porn repeatedly. “The Escalation Effect” is an unexpected effect.  And when it is fully developed, it is a difficult problem to solve.  And the best approach is to prevent it from happening in the first place.

Let me know if you have any question or comment on “The Escalation Effect.”  In the meantime, check back at this website because we have a series started now, and my webmaster Mark and I will be writing about a half dozen other effects of porn on teens.

–Professor George

George A. Rekers, Ph.D., FAACP
Distinguished Professor of Neuropsychiatry and Behavioral Science Emeritus
University of South Carolina School of Medicine

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